The bottom side of 12 and under is, in my opinion, the hardest year for wrestling. The older kids are going through puberty and the younger kids, for the most part are not even close. The bottom side can be a very humbling experience for kids. Both my boys went from state placer/qualifier on the top side of 10U to not making it out of Districts on the bottom side of 12U. We had to have a conversation with our boys about the bottom side of 12U, and just taking their lumps, learning from every match, and giving their best effort. My oldest finished top side of 12U this past season and he had a blast. Tell him he now gets to "rough up" the 11 year olds this year. I don't think forcing him to wrestle will make him love wrestling. Let him finish middle school football, maybe do middle school wrestling, and see what club season brings. I agree, if he doesn't want to wrestle then have him do something. You will make the right decision...