So you would allow your kid to wrestle even thought you knew he was not moving on?
It's time for you to get over this and move on, because this is a battle you are NEVER going to win.
USAWKS will NEVER tell a competitor that they are not allowed to wrestle in a post-season tournament even if their intention is not to continue on in a following week. And to bash a young man or women for coming out and competing, is pretty low.