I also look at it like this. What if my son chooses not to do wrestling at all. At least he has other sports to fall back on and enjoy. Those kids that only wrestle what do they fall back on if they choose not to wrestle. You might say we will deal with that if that ever comes. For me its already in place with the other sports. Im sure not everyone will agree with me on this but thats ok with me and Im ok with it. someone said i was smiling and proud of the path we have chosen for my son. well your right i am very proud of all 5 kids and what they have chosen to do not what I have chosen for them. by the way im very proud of them with their manners and behavior and honor rolls at school. I guess those things are the bling.