Thank you for all your thoughts. I sat down with Tayton and let him no that no matter what he chooses to do that it would not make him a coward nor will it make him less of a young man. At the end of the day it is his decision and I WILL NOT FORCE HIM TO STEP ON THE MAT!! if he wrestles her I will be proud of him if he walks over to the table and scratches I will be proud of him. Thanks again