Dean - the boy's father stated that his son did not want to wrestle the girl because of an issue of respect for her. Now if the problem is in fact that the boy is uncomfortable because of anatomy or sexuality or whatever, then I find that perfectly understandable and I would respect his feelings. I am sure that plenty of boys don't want to be 'grabbing and clutching' other boys either - and it is their right to not choose wrestling (lol). Whether male or female, it is by nature a contact sport.