Let me start by saying, I do not know Cash, Butch or any of the people directly involved in this apparent oversight.
I wounder reading through all of this...Who wanted to wrestle in the event more? Cash or Butch?
It is over! Obviously it has not been a major effect for your son as i assume he is in the finals of kids state the way you are going on.
I promise you this 1 event will not (at least i hope not) affect the remainder of his life!
Good luck to Cash post High School.
Butch....let it go.