Let the elementary kids have their big tournament and the middle school kids have theirs...it gives them something to look forward to!! I can attest to that since I have a middle schooler and an elementary kid that wrestle at all the same tournaments...sometimes I have to impose and ask to skip a match cause both kids wrestle at the same time!! I absolutely love being able to dedicate myself to one or the other and make that tournament all about that particular child!! No shadows to stand in that way...change CAN be good but not always!!