lol you people make me laugh. its the first year of a long long wrestling career. all i am saying as a coach and parent I personally would not focus on winning. I went through it. Yes its nice to see your kid win. Let me ask you a question. If your kid wins by falling on a kid because the other kid is week is that what you want. I didnt think so. What you want is for your kid to learn and get better. If that happens the winning will take care of itself. Winning should not be the focus for a coach or parent in a kids first year. Thats my opinion. You have yours. I just hope that your child is learning and winning with wrestling moves rather than just falling on top of another kid.