Well, first of all, the ref was not called over to explain his call. The comment was just made with no offensiveness intended, but was apparently taken by a referee who thought he could not make a mistake. These referees get paid, and they should, but these wrestlers work very very hard and should deserve proper referees wether they get paid or not. And as for your last statement, sounds to me that you fall into the catagory that was mentioned earlier about taking a match out on a wrestler because you do not like the coach. And yes, you were not there, so maybe the coach was right and not the referee.