this is all I can say. Every team will have a dis-gruntled parent. Parents know everything and coaches know nothing. You have a choice where you want your son to wrestle. Not every club will be suitable for every kid. I am an upbeat type of coach during practice. If you cannot tolerate yelling then you wouldnt like me. At the same time I yell to get those kids to move. I then stop them and show them what they are doing wrong. You also have coaches that do other things. The point is you may not like each and every coach but no reason to bash a club cause you didnt like them. As for the growing up part. Let me give you this. In 2 years your not allowed to bring your club to any tournaments. Your son asks you this question. How come im not wrestling this weekend or last weekend or the weekend before or next weekend. You have to stay because I have yet to grow up and I cant control myself in front of 500 other kids. So now you may want to grow up. If not then thats your fault not everyone elses.