Jordan,
First, congrats to you and your brother and teammates for a tremendous season. I would like to point out (and if you take a moment and try to look at Mr. Detmer from the perspective of a non-Carroll wrestler, maybe you will understand) that ValleyCenter02's comments don't seem to be any attempt to discredit the fact that Mr. Detmer is an outstanding wrestler. His comments say more about the way Mr. Detmer doesn't seem to respect the people he wrestles. Either his inability to admit that he was outworked and taken to the limit in his semifinal match (he accused his opponent of stalling when it was Mr. Detmer who stalled to save his season), and then (apparently) publicly predicting victory by pin in the finals are prime examples of showing no respect to his opponents.
I have not seen you or your brother behave this way, and I am glad about that. I also have not seen Mitch Arnold do this. And I certainly do not hear your coach make comments like that. You guys, and most wrestlers I believe, understand that it is important to respect who you wrestle in the same way that you respect the mat. Hopefully your teammate will follow your example.