I think alot of people are rude at the tournaments. You try to "save" space, not just for your family, but for your club. So they can sit together. This year I have seen more people move our stuff and just sit down, than I have the last 3 years. I think if you see stuff there, don't sit down; or at least ask first. I agree with the one post that said the bleachers are there for you to watch your kids wrestle. I have learned over the past 4 years, that I just need to keep in the bleachers and watch from there. I, admit, the first year (maybe second one too...lol) I was one of those mothers down at the matside cheering my son on. But now that my husband is a coach, I have been banned from matside; and you know what? I don't mind. I hate it when they announce that people need to kneel down or get back in the bleachers and the people just stand there like they never heard anything. I think that is soooo rude. I have been yelled at by people when I politely ask them to kneel or move. Let's just be respectful of each other.