Well, since I have started this post, I have realized that I'm not the only person dealing with the issues we are going through. My son won 21 times this year, good year for him. I'm very proud of what he has done, and as bad as I want to take him to 6-under state, he really isn't interested. (and for all you parents, you know this is killing me!) I think he would do well there. Im not sure who said it earlier but, not all kids have that fire in them. I originally signed my boy up to wrestle 2yrs ago to toughen him up for football next year. I told him that tonight and you should have seen the look on his face. He almost looked relieved. I told him that winning and losing wasnt what his dad cared about. I cared that he went out ,fought hard, and never gave up.(the same thing I told him all year long). But knowing that it sure looks like he is ok with whatever happened on the mat this year, good or bad. I guess that just shows you maybe we(I) can learn something from an innocent, awesome 6 yr old boy! Thanks for all the posts- CW Buoy Neodesha,KS