I could not agree with anyone more than westfahl, everyone should attend a tourney that they have no rooting interest in, sit for one hour and count how many times you see parents, throwing fits, it will amaze you. The one thing I like to listen for, the parent/coach who sits on the side of the mat and tells their wrestler "get up", no explanation as to how, just "get up". Attending the Clay Center tourney this year, I also saw a dad chastizing his 6 year old in the hall way with the comment "didn't I tell you to stay off your back?" Yeah, great idea but the other dad told his son to put me there!