In Ted Witulski's article, Dad-dash-Coach, (listed on another post) he comments about how some parents that have never wrestled ... should.

As a couple of guys have posted, if they spent 30 seconds trying to fight off their back, if they had to wrestle 6 matches in one day, etc. they would gain a new respect for their children.

Now put a 10-year-old in a tough competitive situation and have some coach or "parent" bereating their effort, and you will understand why kids quit!