To get back to the subject at hand, as mentioned earlier, I have 4 kids in wrestling, from HS down to Elem age. All 4 have learned how to discipline themselves when it comes to weight. None of them have had to struggle. Our rule is, you don't make weight at the weight you choose to wrestle at, then you don't wrestle. We provide the appropriate food for them at all times to give them the opportunity to make weight. As a parent whose kids make the sacrifices at Holiday time to make sure they make weight, I would feel slighted, for my child, if a child was allowed to wrestle when he was over--by any amount of weight.