I will have to say I lit into my kid after he lost his matches. It wasnt cause he lost. It was because he would not stop crying and didnt even try. I felt bad afterward and before he wrestled for 5th and 6th we had a very long talk. I apologized to my son. He said it was ok and he would wrestle his hardest. He did and won. He even asked me afterward can he wrestle freestyle. I politey told him no. Its time for a break and look forward to wrestling next season. I agree I do need to work on a few things being a dad coach. I have learned alot this year and will continue to learn down the road. Thanks to all those that have provided advice and keep up the good work.