I do not understand most of what I read from some parents on the kids forum, but then, I am an older mom. My son only started wrestling as a high school freshman. I can say that in 4 years of high school wrestling and 3 years of Kids 14u & 16u, I have only once seen a parent behaving badly. I cannot imagine a high school coach or referee putting up with the kind of scenes I hear about from the parents of these very young kids. Maybe that is because the parents are IN THE STANDS. We may grumble to ourselves, but it is very important to be good role models to our sons and to positively represent our school and community to the other teams. My 18 year old son was appalled to see that his 6 year old nephew's bb team kept score and that the coach was running up the score on the other team. He seems to have the right attitude about what should be important to our young athletes - to have fun and learn.