I can't remember who started this thread, but it seems he/she said to not remind him/her that he/she didn't have to open & read anything. Well, that was asking a lot because that's the heart of it, isn't it!? I thought the exchange on the "sub results" was great-a lot of fun and a chance to release some stress and have a good time. To me, bottom line is if you don't like the direction of a discussion, DON'T read it. There are so many possibilities for discussion on this forum and most will learn something. The discussion about 5/6 year olds crying was very eye-opening and touching. If a person didn't learn from that one, they must be very cold. I say keep this forum as is, and be a bit more accepting of others' ideas and enjoyment.