Nix, my son who wrestles is 10, he has a 6 year old brother & a 15 year old sister. My 6 year old is not interested in wrestling (yet) & my 15 year old has made poor decisions & has been housed in wakeeney kansas since January. Both of my kids that do not wrestle are jealous of the time I spend with the 10 year old & yet my 10 year old is jealous of the time I try to spend with his siblings away from wrestling. I try to take my 6 year old to practice, he goes from time to time but often finds it boring & would rather stay home with Mom. I give him lots of attention when at home, but this time of year it is not very often as we are hitting every practice that we can. Now, heres the kicker, my 15 year old's birthday is 3/30, she is turning 16 & get's her first pass home since January this weekend. Where will we all weekend including her birthday???? Yep, at the expo centre at the tournament. She is actually excited to get out of her current situation & knows what the schedule is, but yeah I feel you as far as the guilt goes. Not sure there is an easy fix. It's a long season, but I am glad the off season is longer so I can attempt to mend fences with the rest of the family!