I have seen many parents say & do mean things to there kids after losing a match. I saw a dad one time had his son pinned on the wall and said we spent 300 dollars to come here then you wrestle like that. I just wanted to say to parents that when your son or daughter loses a match they may be just out classed. I seems like when kids lose some parents & coaches always think it was somthing the kid did wrong. There will always be wrestlers that can beat your (and my) kids even when they do everyting right. The kids are trying to do there best dont beat them down about losing. If you see somthing your kid does wrong (technique) wait untill the sting of the loss is over then talk to them about it. Then you have a better chance of them retaining your point. I just want to see less kids getting yelled at & jerked around because they lost. This will be our 5th year of wrestling for my kids & there is somthing I noticed when my sons are wrestling a kid that they are better than they look good hitting many moves they have been taught. On the other hand when they are a out classed by a better wrestler they look like they are not applying what they have learned in practice. Parents & coaches keep this in mind its not what your kid is doing wrong its what the other kid is doing right.