I think it just depends on the kid. People used to think I was being a jerk for taking someone down and letting them go. Like I was just toying with them. I sucked at riding so I'd rather give them one instead of two. Some kids might go for a front head lock knowing they could choke someone out by just holding it and looking like they are defending their leg. That to me is dirty when you hold a position with out the thought of doing an actual move.