I agree I just wanted to make sure i wasnt crazy for thinkin the way I was. My opinion was the kid needed to man up and wrestle but then maybe i was being heartless and the wrestler i know was actually wrestling too hard> After all i certainly have never been on the receiving end of a cross face or head lock or any number of crazy contortions you boys go through in a match. And yes he pretty much is a friend to all off the mat. But he knows no friend when the whistle blows.