I totally agree with your statment My daughter was winning at every tournament she was in last year she was 6 under 43 it was her first year so I started taking her to bigger tournaments to get her first loss behind her I didnt like her winning everytime and I knew she would get a big head and cocky if she didnt lose soon I felt bad for saying i am taking her to Hutchison or Manhattan so she can lose at least once..but I knew for her to be a better wrestler she needed to know what losing felt like..she was 23-0 before she got her first loss the funny thing was it wasnt at any of the big tournaments i put her in it was a small one right here in our own backyard at the rice co open she got 3rf only won one that day and the first loss well she acted as though it was gonna kill her and be the end of the world..I felt bad for her pain but was glad she felt the loss it only made her a better person and wreslter..