Yup, they are beat.
My suggestion is to start looking for any of the big National tournaments left. Liberty, Reno etc. Because their season is done in KS come state time. Our son was 5'4" 150lbs last year in 8&U and we didn't even bother wrestling in KS due to this. There will be a bunch of good wrestlers not going to state due to this situation. OK & MO are more open minded though and you will even get wrestle in your own age bracket.
Good Luck