That makes sense.. and backs other answers received. But funny enough it has come to light that the point of it was to encourage other wrestlers to go to the other club....

I had a couple of concerned parents approach me and say that they were asked to join them... and that little wayne wrestler was going here and there as well. We have a very tight knit club minus the parents in question. it is however the point of the matter to which I am irritated... that they would do that. And I was warned by others not to allow it as it would cause conflict and certainly has.

As this is only our 3rd year running this club... Tell me does this kind of undercut and disrspect happen often.. and how have some of you others dealt with it.

To make it clear****
I have no problem club wrestlers fitting in a practice at another club or attending clinics or any of the above, In fact its encouraged.. I have a problem with another club trying to recruit our current club members.