My son started wrestling when he was 4 and we did it for some of the same reasons. I think if you are a mom or a dad you have the correct ideas to do what is best for you child. I know the world is not perfect and there are parents that are only in it for the win, but I would like to think that every parent is trying to do what is best for the child, and lets remember that we are not at their homes and we are not aware what is going on in their life and why those parents have made the decision to do what they are doing. I guess what I am trying to say is, we should not judge it really it not our job, I do believe that some one gave up his life for us so that we would not have to carry that burden.....