Who knows how many parents have ever even looked at a rule book? The first mistake they make is depending on someone else to tell them what a book says.

Isn't that why we learn to read. . . so we can learn and KNOW!

Should I depend on someone else to tell me what the Holy Bible is saying? Or should I read it so I know?

On the flip side, I admit that an "ask the ref" forum would possibly be helpful but actually only turn into critique and opinion. . . just like an officiated match.