It is so easy to put the blame on a ref for a loss. I've done it myself ,then I became a ref for 5 years, If you get the chance to become a ref in the near future--try it--then your eyes will be opened, and you will see and understand what they see. Quit looking for excuses on a loss. You can hear this gripe at every tournament you go to even at state. If they made a mistake remember they are human. And there always looking for good refs,hopefully I'll see you out on the mat,in the near future.