seriously cokeley is right! teams should be allowed to attend whatever tournament that they desire. Thats it bottom line!
Adam the answer to your question/statement is clear. DO NOT be a KSHSAA member then you are free to attend whatever tournaments wherever, whenever you wish. It's that simple. No one is making these schools who feel held back be a part of the KSHSAA.
Why should all the other KSHSAA schools change their rules to satisfy 1 or maybe 2 teams in the whole state? The rest of the schools are fine with it. If those 1 or 2 aren't happy I would suggest they look at a different governing body.