Point taken. Hossus said it best, this is a big city problem. I'm glad I don't have this problem and empathize with those of you who do. I just took it wrong when told I was "short sighted and selfish." It didn't help I was lumped into a group of wrestling coaches that apparently are wrong. I still don't understand how you can wrestle for one club and then move to another High School, I personally just couldn't do it.
I wish everyone luck in the decisions they are making for their children.