No one ever said Cokeley was a loser. It was a great match, and as a former college wrestler they both are very talented. And Mr. Cokeley i do egree with all your point, and i am a close friend of Coach Wyant that used to coach your son, and he said a lot of good things about your son. And i would be lying if i didnt say i wasnt a little dissapointed with the reaction. I am a big firm believer in "WIN LIKE A MAN, LOSE LIKE A MAN". Yes it is definatly between you and him and i wish the best of luck with it. You do have a great son and he has a bright future. Everyone makes mistakes and its how they bounce back is when there true character shows.