We were all talking as we walked out the door about what the other coach did and said while the 2 wrestlers were still in the middle.
That moment was the big deal! Also, the double handed shake for purposes of only pulling him in.
Really, though did anybody hear and see that VC coach. I don't want to put him out there like that and describe the actions when I may be mistaken.... but that was what we were talking about.
Well, it's only reasonable that you tell us what you think you saw, because even though you don't want to put the opposing coach out there, that is exactly what you did!
I personally don't think any of it is a big deal. Wrestling is a very emotional sport and many times gets the best of athletes, coaches, parents, refs, spectators, etc.
Losing sucks!