It is good to hear all you guys have to say on this topic. Sadly my oldest son was a kid who was pressured to win every time, by his Dad. If you didn't win you were a loser, which so wasn't the case. He refused to wrestle in high school. Finally in his senior year he wrestled. Like he told me it just wasn't the same. He has turned his back on the sport which makes me very sad. His little brother is now in kids and there is no pressure. I am hoping this time to keep the love of the sport going by not letting anyone put to much pressure on him. Be careful guys as much as you want to you can't relive your youth through your children. It is dangerous to them when you try to.