I had heard that the ref told the SJA coach that moeder said a bad word after the stalemate call. So I specifically looked for the ref talking to Moeder after the stalemate. I do not see ANYTHING to suggest that the ref is giving Moeder ANY sort of warning or talking to, about such an instance. I personally believe the ref made that up to make his call look more justified. I know Mr. Moeder is done with this, and won't respond, but I would like to know exactly what the opposing wrestler was doing underneath prior to the stalemate, that caused Moeder to lose his composure. I have watched Taylor for years and years, and have NEVER seen him act like what we refer to as a "punk". Something pushed his button, and he made a mistake by overreactin. But the overreaction did NOT justify an ejection. I also want to add that my son has wrestled one of the Bjorgo boys, and had no problems with sportsmanship, and I have never seen them act like punks either. But something happened between these two otherwise fine young men, and it got blown way out of proportion by a referee. I would like to see your angle of video also. I would say to post it and let people judge for themselves. Hate to beat a dead horse, but like someone said earlier, the refs need to learn something from this.
As for the person that heard the talking in the hallway after the tourney, if that happened, you need to take ALL of the people that heard it, and talk to the administration of the coaches involved.