I am not a beginner at this by no means and do love the sport. I am dealing with parents who have a problem with a kid 50 to 70 lbs heavier. This kid has wrestled kids 30 pounds heavier all year. He has done good with this guys. Did lose to a kid that was 45 lbs heavier. The mom is worried and they have pulled him when he was up agaisnt a state qualifer that was 50 lbs heavier which is their right. Hey Hossu i know about the pain of wrestling I had to pick some teeth out of my oldest sons head one time. It is a hard physical sport and I know this. Trying to help newbies better understand the sport.