The problem i have with you sportsfan is in your post you said you don't want to make a weight group for every obese kid out there. Where do you get that these kids are obese. Some of them are BIG KIDS not obese. We have a 10 and under who stands 5ft 6in and weighs 134 now he was weighing 150 he is not obese. Please don't assume these kids are all obese. some may be but others are not. When your dad is 6ft 5in and weighs 250 and you get his genes you are going to be big not obese. Also answer me this why is it ok for the smaller weights to move up by 3 pounds but the big boys have to move up by 10 or 20 pounds? You realize that if you are in 10 and under and weigh 134 you have to wrestle 150. Because there is not many big boys at this weight you get combined with 170 every week and on paper it looks like you are with in the weigh rules on paper but in reality you are wrestling a kid who weighs 169. So you are giving up 35 pounds. Who in their right mind thinks that doesn't mess with a kids head. Wrestling is not just physical it is mental also and when your kids looks at that big kid he beats himself before he even gets on the mat. Why is this ok? This would be like a 70 pounder wrestling someone that weigh 105 pounds.