I've been around the sport of wrestling for over fifty years. I truly believe it is the best sport for teaching life long lessons. I don't have a son, but in the past I've coached high school, college and helped with the kids club. Now, I'm just a fan.
I believe 99% of the people involved in wrestling are there for the right reasons. I feel sorry any kid that does not have the opportunity to wrestle. I think we should applaud the people who give their time and talents to help kids. The cup isn't empty, it's 99% full. We need to strive for 100%.
With all the above being said, I don't think anyone whose ever coached doesn't wish they had a 'do over'. I think either by words or actions, we have all done something that hasn't been positive for kids. Like the wrestlers on the mat, coaches and parents will make mistakes. Hopefully, we learn from those mistakes.
PROMISE YOURSELF, TO GIVE SO MUCH TIME TO THE IMPROVEMENT OF YOURSELF THAT YOU HAVE NO TIME TO CRITICZE OTHERS.