it is also helpful to have a coach that is accepting that females are also interested in wrestling & works with them when they are on the team. HS coaches!! Times are changing & it is time to accept that they are wanting & willing to do the work. The coach also needs to make the effort not just on a chosen few to have them come in once in a while. he needs to come into the room & get to know the kids & get involved as well. I have kids in both hs & kids club. I would love to see him get involved. We have a very good kids club coach this year & would like to see him stick around. he does good work. we also have a great coordinator too!