I think it is funny how some of you say "we" are doing this and "we" are doing that...just let the kids wrestle and have fun...yeah competition is a factor in their learning experience but why must adults include themselves in this competiton...you don't get on the mat for your kid (whether it's actually your child or one of your wrestlers) so just ask the child to do his/her best before walking out on the mat and when they do (win or lose) carry them off the mat like a champion!!

Good luck to all the "competitors"!!