It is sad but true.There is some refs you can not talk to,some you cant rase your voice to,Than there is some that you can just aboout do anything to.

Just like cops or any one in power.They do what they want,not what is right.

There is many many good refs out there.But if you get on there bad side[just like most any one]look out.

Not sure of the facts here,but I do think as in any time of the year,it should not be in one mans hands.I like you think the greiveience comity should be not on a friends pick.