i don't think we are thinking long term here. you can't re-do what's been done. then the next time, when it is something sooo serious that none of us can believe it happened and we DON'T "sweep it under the rug"/ "do the right thing", then it's discrimination.
"i just raised my voice a little", "i only said 1 bad word", "i didn't say THAT! i said "achoo"!", "i wasn't talking to you mr. referee" where do you draw the line? i don't know.
cbr is right worse infractions happen every tournament, and the violators always believe in their own innocence. i'm not saying what cbr did is right or wrong, nor the official. i'm saying you can't set the precedent by letting it go, just because "it could have been worse"
maybe the ejection should stand for the coach, and be lifted for the DAD.