I agree with you, kids and parents that are not coaches sould not be on the mat. But we are going off on a different subject. When I saw this official push my son and give him the look that he gave him, Man I saw RED, I felt a anger go over me I never felt before. My son is only eight, he's not a grown man to be pushed by a man. I know that I'm not the only parent who feels like this, because I had a few coachs tell me that they would have been kicked out because of being so mad. Now what happened is history.. All I want to know is who else can a coach go to when something like this should ever happen to anyone?