One of my boys wrestled a TOHK wrestler all season last year during GR/FS season. At regionals on of the TOHN coaches came and found my wrester and had a very respectful talk with him. My wrestler beat the TOHK wrestler for the first time that year. Both the wrestler and the coaches were very respectful and the two wrestlers even walked away from the mat talking and hanging out. From that point on my wrestler will go out of his way to say "hi" and talk to the TOHK coaches. I don't think you can judge the whole team by the actions from one or two members of the club. IMO TOHK always has some very good wrestlers and the wrestle with alot of heart and emotion. I wish some of my wrestler would wrestle with the amount of heart and emotion.
There were many other coaches getting upset, using foul language and getting in the refs faces and being disrespectful. If you are going to call out people for poor behavior then call them all out. I'm sure my name would bbe put out there a few times. Or even better don't call anyone out in a public forum. Follow the rule my parents beat into me 30+ years ago "treat others the way you want to be treated" I'm sure the way the TOHK wrestlers were treated is not how any coach or parent wants there wrestler treated.