cdzmom we do have a code of conduct that our wrestlers,parents and coaches sign every year. If the kids aren't big enough to read it is read to them. They are ask if they understand what is being read to them. We hold them to it we have a committee that they have to answer to if they should get out of line. Punshiment could be anywhere from not getting to practice, not getting to attend a tournament. One thing they always have to do is make an apology to whom ever it is. That includes other clubs coaches or kids and our coaches and kids have gotten an apology from our kids.