I agree, it's so easy to only focus on the negative, but we should focus on the kids. My son had a goal just to place this year and good for him he met it he got 4th was he mad, yeah at first then he realized he did the best he could and that's that. If anyone knows him they know he doesn't like to lose at anything! So for him to accept the fact that his best just wasn't quite good enough for 1st, on this day is a step in the right direction lol. it's only his 3rd year and just to c the way wrestling has helped him is amazing! That to me is worth more than any medal or trophy, to c the kids grow as people is amazing