I am so tired of "preventive officiating" the only thing it is preventing is making a call. When any official addresses one and only one wrestler as in "you have to work on bottom" this is nothing more than coaching. Any time an individual wrestler is addressed it should be accompanied with a warning. I can understand urging the novice but in an open tournament it's just taking the easy way out. Next stalling is a judgement call is correct but when a wrestler has to be spoken to this means the official realizes there is a problem and is using his "judgement" in the wrong way