To clarify ... I believe getting on these boards and stating anything about kids in a negative light is absolutely wrong!

Contrary, if you get on these same boards and have constructive criticism of adults, the way they conduct themselves, or the way they manage themselves, it is a completely different matter.

We should never say anything bad about kids. My Mom taught me, that when I didn't have anything nice to say ... to say nothing. But with all resepect to my Mother, if I have something constructive (that sometimes is less than glowing) to say and if I feel it is warranted, I will say it politely.

I think that IS one thing that these message boards can do that is POSITIVE.

It is possible to be constructive without being negative!