... but this brings emphasis to perhaps a bigger problem ...

Sometimes, others do not recognize the "glowing attributes" of our own kids! For twenty years, I have been involved in some fashion or the other, trying to judge what kids merit "All Star" credentials. Sometimes, this is less than a democratic process. I find it pretty hard to critique a "coach" selection of his or her team.

... another problem ...

if a person is posting on this kids page and using language (even if symbols replace letters) that is less than positive, it is likely to be deleted.