Okay, I'm New to this and after reading these posts I'm unsure that I want to enroll my young son in this sport b/c I'm not the kind of parent that will allow my child or ANY other child to be be-littled in public OR private. Yes, it is your child and your choice BUT I WILL take you aside and ask you if that was necessary. So perhaps I need to re-think my decision to enroll my child -- Just a thought --